HOW TO SPEAK TO YOUR PARENTS,IF THEY DONT UNDERSTAND YOU

            

  Do you feel rejected ? ,sad,lost,suicidal,all because your parents don't show concern about you,they feel as if they don't need your concern about the family lifestyle
              They cast you aside As if you are not important at all,don't worry,today I will be giving you some tips on how to gain their attention and trust.

1.INTENTIONAL LETTER
               This can be very helpful considering the case that your parents might not want to listen to you because they find it hard to forgive you for what you might have done to them.
              Trying something new such as by writing a letter can gain the attention of your parents,your parents who might have never seen you writing a letter before might have a change of heart when they see the content of the letter,they feel like they could consider you.
              Writing a letter to your parents make them to know that you are getting mature and they should start to consider you.
             When writing such letter,the following should be considered:
1.An apology if necessary
2.how you feel about how they have been acting towards you
3.balancing behavior act
4.willingness for reunion.
            The following could help,This is the best effective method to do it.but some parents can be adamant and can discard such easily without reading it,so if that does not work try step 2.

2.DIRECT CONFRONTATION🙋🙋🙋🙋
                This is one if the most dangerous method of speaking with one's parent ,Taking a case in which your parents are abusive or drug addicts or addicted to other anti-social behaviours,this method can cause you harm,as they will think you are talking back.
                 They mistook the right thing for something else and so this can inflict punishment.your parents can even beat you because they will be thinking that ,you are teaching them what they are meant to be teaching you .
                 And some might even beat you because they know you are saying the truth and it is hurting them for them to know you know the truth
                So when confronting your parents,you can apologize first to clear all malice,then you go straight to the point,No parents want a 1980 emotional cry drama in reality so don't try it.
                Instead try to be normal and feel relaxed, remember your parents can study you easily so your behavior at that moment can help.

3.GIFT SURPRISE🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁
                 You saw it,now you are reading it.Buying gifts for your parents can be something you can use to get their attention.
                 when buying gifts for your parents make sure it is something they love and make sure it is something that is not harmful to them.
                  When buying gifts don't buy something you don't have enough money for,buy something that you can easily deduct from your accounts,if you can buy pay for them,maybe your father or mother is owing a small change ,you can pay it if you can and don't promise what you can't do.
               When buying gifts 🎁🎁🎁for your mother,flowers 🌹💮🌹🌺are the best to buy, beautiful flowers🌺🌹🌹🌺 like roses,Lily etc.
                 When buying gifts🎁🎁🎁🎁 for Father's,Father's have different range of gifts,so the gift you can give them most is by repairing stuffs, in the house.
           In a case whereby your dad likes a harmful substance such as alcohol /cigarettes,the best thing to do is to buy the second thing they also love.💗💗💗💖💕💕💝
               Giving parents gifts can rekindle their love for you,so at least try this if other plan fails,and you can try this.
                 

4.GUARDIAN/FAMILY MEMBER INTERFERENCE
                 When the issue becomes worse that the methods listed above proves abortive,this is the last method , I can offer and it has proved effective.
                 When calling a family member,those people you should call are your close family relatives,the ones who share close relationship with your parents like your uncle's or your aunties or even your grand parents.And you can also call the family head to resolve the issue faster
                When calling a guardian,make sure  it is a family friend it someone your family trusts like your neighbour,teacher,community leader, religious leaders etc.,so that there won't be another issue when calling strangers to a personal issue.

         The following methods should help,I hope you felt relieved already and like I said,I am back,have a nice weekend😁😂😁😁,thanks for reading and please share to your friends and also subscribe for more.