PLANNING YOUR LIFE- A GUIDE

              

          Life has its own ways of telling us what to do, in most aspect of life situations makes the decisions for us and they shape us through our life, we do live lives in which we ask the question “do I have a plan or not”, whether you like it or not, Life does not work without a plan, when you were young, your young instinct will be so simple, you may wish to become a doctor or lawyer as long as you don’t know the strides you will pass through to get there, But once you start to develop and get old, you will be faced with situations that will question how well your simple plan can work, As you grow older, you will be faced with a lot of decisions and you will need to adjust those plans and if you are not careful, you might have a lot of issues with achieving that plan, we all want a good plan for our lives and we don’t want the one in which life will give us a life of anyhow, so how do we plan ? , Is it only life that needs a Plan ? How does plan help us?

                  Life is a wide topic on its own and We are going to be having a good discussion on it right now, so we all have different aspects of life, we have infancy, childhood, Adolescence and Adulthood, we know the fact that as we pass through this stages ,some developments do occur and they follow every aspect along with us, when talking about planning in relations to life, we need to know the fact that we can’t just plan immediately and that is because a plan takes years to achieve and it takes all forms of efforts and thinking to be achieved and it will take time too, but not too much, you will need to be someone who has a good foundation to be able to make a good plan and you will need to be extremely focused, planning is so necessary in one’s life and without it, a lot of great mistakes could be made easily, Every step in human life requires planning and it requires knowledge of knowhow, so as to be able to move independently and plan without being dependent on other people’s plan, we need to have a good sense of plan, turning to Elders and Guardians for a piece of advice in planning your life could help.

                 We keep asking the question, how do we plan our life, What are distractions and how can we modify our plans as we move through, To start with the plan making process, we need to work according to a lot of factors, factors such as career, parental effect, Talents and more, when you want to make a plan, you need to make a list of your hobbies and your interests, this list will be your long term decision note, any decisions you make will come out from the note and you will need to ignore anything outside the list, we need to make sure that in whatever we do, we are always guided and careful, you can always ask adults for advice as you move along your plan.

              We cannot continue this discussion without discussing the fact that behaviors might help you in doing a lot in terms of planning, we need to act and live in the right way for us not to have  too much enemies and nemesis, we all know that we can’t live a life without enemies, but maybe if you have a good character and behavior, you could make more friends rather than enemies, Sometimes these friends could help us a lot in what we are doing and we can also make rapid progress with their help, so maybe, You don’t need to be independent all the time, you can decide a plan with friends too, but don’t be dependent on them too, we should make a plan in which we would be able to adjust it whenever unforeseen circumstances takes place, you can easily make a plan as long as you can foresee future events and proffer solutions to it.